Dummies and Talking

Babies like to suck, so dummies can help soothe at bedtime or when your child is tired or cross. But regular and extended use of a dummy can create problems with your child’s speech.

  • Try to wean your child away from dummies, preferably by 12 months.
  • Make a clean break – throw away the dummy over a weekend, or at a time when you have support. Most babies and toddlers will fret for no more than two or three days.
  • Dummies prevent children from babbling – an important step in learning to talk, so only use them at set times, like bedtime.
  • When your child cries he’s trying to tell you something, so try to find out what’s troubling him first, and use the dummy as a last resort.
  • Never dip your child’s dummy into anything sweet. This can cause tooth decay.
  • Remember, learning to talk can be tricky so toddlers need lots of practice. A dummy will discourage your toddler from chatting with you, which she needs to do to develop her language skills.
  • If your toddler is still using a dummy, always ask him to take it out before you talk to each other.